Peace For Kristen Stewart

LET’S COME TOGETHER FOR THIS ONE THING.

Even though the different groups within this fandom disagree on some things, don’t you all agree that it would be AWESOMELY AMAZING if EVERYONE AGREED ON ONE THING? The one thing being to SUPPORT the PEACE, RESPECT, PRIVACY AND SAFETY OF BOTH KRISTEN AND ROB by helping dry the media’s and paparazzi’s “wells”.

Do you all think we can come together for THAT if not anything else?

I’m pretty sure, regardless of groups & differences in opinions, EVERYONE LOVES TO SEE THEIR FAVORITE PERSON HAPPY. Right? Whether it is just Kristen, or is just Rob, or both of them?

Come on, let’s do this together, because WE CAN. :)

Peace,

Peace4Stew #PaparazziReform

OOH! Use The Golden Rule to support in fangirling and relating with others on Twitter/Tumblr/Social Media :)

I realize many people are torn about how to fangirl these days because many want to see new pictures or hear new news, but many also want Kristen’s and Rob’s private and personal lives to be respected. I understand the dissonance with all that, especially because it’s a major shift compared to how people are used to fangirling in the past.

But in light of not so recent events, people are having a positive change of heart and are taking RESPECTING Kristen and Rob very seriously, which really is good news.

Maybe this will help.

One of the first things I learned when I was a kid was “The Golden Rule,” and if you ask me, it was the best thing I could have learned at such a young age because I’ve carried the wisdom with me since then. Of course, I wasn’t always good at remembering it or applying it, but in time and with practice, I’m now able to really utilize it more regularly. :)

“Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” ~ Matthew 7:12

For those of you unfamiliar with the bible, here’s another way to say it:

With every choice I make, I try to keep this in mind and then I make my choices for the benefit of everyone. (I will be the first to admit that I may not always make the best choices because sometimes I allow my emotions to get the better of me. No problem though because as long as I learn from it and grow from it and work hard at choosing what’s best, then that works. AND I will always be working on myself. That’s life. It’s all about the journey, not the destination.)

So, in the instances of wondering what celeb pictures to look at (for example Kristen and Rob pictures), or which links to circulate, or which pictures to take, or tweets to post, or articles to read, or how to interact with other people on Twitter, I ask myself this question/s.

IF IT WERE ME, HOW WOULD I WANT TO BE TREATED? OR IF THESE PEOPLE WERE MY CLOSE FRIENDS HOW WOULD I WANT THEM TO BE TREATED?

For Instance:

If I wouldn’t want my picture taken without permission and circulated all over the internet, then I do not take the picture and I do not circulate it. If I wouldn’t want my location to be known to the entire world, then I do not announce where people are, especially while they are still there. If I wouldn’t want to be called names, I do not call other people names, especially mean-spirited ones. If I want people to accept me for me and not by the choices I make or my opinions, then, I get to choose to accept other people’s personal choices and opinions. If I wouldn’t want to be minimized by being sexually objectified, I do not sexually objectify others. If I want respect, I respect others. Now, clearly I’m still working on many of these examples, but does that make sense?

Although it’s a VERY simple philosophy, no one said it was easy to live by, but I can guarantee it IS worth it.

I invite you all to try The Golden Rule out and if you find that it works in your life, why not live from it? What’s great is that it’s such a simple rule with few words that can work magic in every aspect of our lives. 

I’d be curious to hear how it goes for you. :)

Peace,

Peace4Stew

What it means to be a Sanestewbert… :)

So as to not cause any confusion, to call yourself this, you must align with the following guidelines/thoughts/views, otherwise, you are not an authentic Sanestewbert. :) What’s great is that ANYONE can be a Sanestewbert. This “group” can include everyone and anyone can be part of this awesomely exclusive group of people.

1. You have a healthy relationship with and enjoy both Kristen’s and Rob’s work and professional life. You find joy and happiness in seeing each of them happy with their projects. In fact, that’s very important to you.

2. You believe in respecting Kristen’s and Rob’s “romantic private life”, which means, you are not invested in whether or not they are a couple. If they are, great. If they are not, great. You have respect for them individually. That doesn’t mean you don’t support their choice to be a couple, IF that’s what they choose. It is because you are sane and logical, you do not feel the need to make anyone wrong or spend the time theorizing what happens between them. So, you may have a personal preference and that’s fine, but you do not use your personal preferences/opinion as ammunition towards others who may not share your views.

3. You have a commitment to respect both Kristen’s and Rob’s private life, which means you only support professionally done articles/interviews/photoshoots/pictures. You, #SayNoToPaparazzi, #SayNoToALLGossipSitesAndTabloids, #BoycottTabloidMedia and you support the #PaparazziReformInitiative Learn more here. Also, because you respect their private life, you do not speak about either Kristen and/or Rob in an objectifying/sexually disrespectful manner, nor do you tweet/circulate anyone’s location/whereabouts until AFTER they have left the location. (Seriously, anyone who does that, feeds the paparazzi because they troll your accounts.)

4. You “fangirl” hard and smart, meaning you may gush over new pics of Rob/Kristen, but you do not click on/circulate any photos taken by paparazzi. Gushing is fine. What may not be fine is gushing over pictures attained disrespectfully and unlawfully. One paparazzi company is saying they’re losing money and that’s the news we want to hear from ALL paparazzi companies. US Weekly’s sales are down from last year and you know what? That’s progress! :)

5. You are respectful towards others and their opinions. Which means, you leave those who you disagree with alone. If needed, you report those who are harassing you and/or block them. Regardless, you do not interact with people who seem to want to fight with you. Remember, Sanestewberts are not bullies, nor are they bullied. RESPECT AND EMPOWERMENT IS THE GAME OF SANESTEWBERTS. :)

Now, personally, I don’t understand labels, but if we’re going to label things, then this one was the best “label” I could come up with  describe many of those who can align with what I listed above. I know there are many people within the fandom who can and do. ~ Peace4Stew

Follow @Sanestewberts if you consider yourself one or at least are willing to work on it. Oh, and make sure you RT/Reblog this as well. :)

This is all in good fun everyone. :)

BIG UPs to you guys being so INCREDIBLY AWESOME FOR ONLY CIRCULATING screening pics of Kristen!!

YOU.F*CKING.ROCK.

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READ THIS!

THIS 14 YEAR OLD HAS MORE WISDOM THAN SOME OF THE ADULTS PAVING THE WAY FOR CHILDREN LIKE HER. WE HAVE A LOT TO LEARN FROM SOME OF OUR KIDS. TAKE THE TIME TO READ THIS. You won’t regret it. via @PattzStewGlobal

It’s awesome when a 14 year old can clip your ass and tame you because her wisdom and heartfelt, authentic words are so disarming. Thank you, Noelle. :) Kudos to you, man.